Growing up, I often felt like an outsider.

I often felt unnoticed in social settings.

But in the classroom and on the sports field, it was different.

I was smart and a great athlete.

My brains and athleticism got me noticed and attracted friends.

But outside of these environments, I struggled.

To fit in, I thought I must present myself as “perfect.”

I hid flaws, conformed to societal norms, and passed on opportunities where I might fail.

But inauthenticity made it harder to form genuine connections.

I lost out on chances.

While I was aware, I wasn’t sure what to do.

That changed when I joined the public speaking club, Toastmasters International.

After a few subpar speeches, I let my guard down.

I gave a raw, honest, and emotional speech.

The audience reaction was overwhelming.

I felt liberated.

With every speech, I began opening up more.

Inspired, I translated it to social, family, and work.

Connections developed easier.

Family bonds formed stronger.

New biz opportunities became more abundant.

I’m still a work in progress.

I now see that perfection isn’t relatable, achievable, or real.

But vulnerability is magnetic and beautiful.

Think of your life.

How might vulnerability attract family, friends, clients, and business to you?